UBS — the world's largest wealth manager, with more than two trillion dollars in client assets — launched a research and communications programme called Own Your Worth. The intent was serious and the investment was real. Year after year, UBS commissioned surveys, published findings, issued reports, held events, and directed the considerable weight of its brand toward a single proposition: that high-net-worth women were not sufficiently engaged in financial decision-making wit

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